thanks everyone.. I guess i get night duty since i am the one usually up all night. but i think my body thinks i am the mom, cause i wake up with ever cry and my daughter doesnt hear it as good as i do even though he is in her room in his bassinet for now. Too funny.. But she gets up but since she had her csection it will take some time to move faster. I remember that when i had her and didnt have help. I am trying to not take over but he wants me to only feed him. he has been that way since he was born in the hospital. every time he hears my voice, he has to open his eyes and look for me. I dont know if he thinks i am his mom or what. But he does love her. He is so good. He hardley cries, except tummy hurts or pees. lol... other wise he just looks around... But we are tired over course but love having him.. been sick alot since been born, but then that is fms for u... when you do too much, the body kicks you down and puts u in bed...anyways, sorry for the novel.. but looking in more than writing lately and trying to play.. have cashed out around 5000 at the casino within the last month. but my best month ever in casino history...